Thursday, March 13, 2008
Im a big fan of Sam Milby and Ann Curtis, I love thier love song in Maging sino ka man
You and I
We're gonnna fly across the sky
Higher than high
Just You and I
You and I
We're gonna sail across the sea
Free as the breeze
Just You and me
You and I
Floatin' our boat
Leavin' a smoke
Slowin' our boat
Just lettin' it soak
You and I think
Song that I sing
Ringin' a bell
Livin' like heaven... heaven
You and I
We're gonna groove, make our move
Let it lay back
Stayin' our track
You and I
Livin' this life
Crying our cry
And saying goodbye
With tears in our eyes
You and I
Floatin' our boat
Leavin' a smoke
Slowin' our boat
Just ready to soak
You and I think
Song that I sing
Ringin' our bell
Living like heaven... heaven
You and I
We're gonna fly across the sky
Higher than high...
Just You and I
Livin' this life
Crying our cry
And saying goodbye
With tears in our eyes
You and I
Floatin' our boatYou And I
You and I think
Song that I sing
Ringin' our bell
Living like heaven... heaven
You and I
We're gonna fly across the sky
Higher than high...
Just You and I
Sunday, March 9, 2008
in search of truth.........
truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. - Legal Oath
@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ WHAT IS TRUH????? @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
Mrcel Eck stated that," a society in which all truths we blindly exposed would be more like hell than a paradise. Not to speak the truth is sometimes a duty."
Most people say truth hurts.In dealing whith truth which might create even a minor crisis, It seems more often more expeditious to tell a lie. " As long as we doesn't hurt anybody".
Great Philisopher Socrates was,in essense, put to death for telling the truth because his judges believed that his truth would corrupt thier youth.
###### AS FOR ME I STILL BELIEVE IN WHITE LIE'S #####################
I choose to do it not only to protect myself but also the people i love from hurting.
But if the best option is to tell the truth why not.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
POWER MANAGEMENT AND WORK
(from Manila Bulletin, an article by Former President Fidel V. Ramos)
1. Always say less than necessary. When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less control.
2. So much depends on reputation -guard it with your life. Reputation is the cornerstone of power. Through reputation alone, you can intimidate and win; once it slips, however, you are vulnerable and will be attacked on all sides.
3. Win through your actions, never through arguments. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through actions,without saying a word. Demonstarte, do not explicate.
4. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself-isolation is dangerous. A fortress seems the safest. But isolation exposes you to more dangers than it protects you from - it cuts you off from valuable information.
5. Keep your hands clean. You must seem a paragon of efficiency and civility. Your hands are never soiled by mistakes and nasty deeds.
6. Plan all the way to end. The ending is everything. Plan all the way toit, Taking all to account is possible consequences, obstacles, and twists of fortune that might reverse your hard work and give the glory to others.
7. Master the art of timing. Never seem to be in a hurry - hurrying betrays a lot of control over yourself, and over time. Always seem patient, as if you know that everything will come to youn eventually.
8. And despise the free lunch. What is offered for free is dangerous - it usually involves either a trick or a hidden obligation. What has worth is worth paying for.
MANAGING YOURSELF
1. Know what you are supposed to be doing. what is your priority? whats the end point? whats the goal? You've got to know what you are supposed to be doing.
2. Be proactive, not reactive. the greatest advancements were created by innovators - people who imagined things that did not exist and asked why. If u are'nt proactive, you'll stagnate.
3. Be consistent. If you turn in good work and then one day handin a pile of rubbish, people are going to think you've blown it. People need to know what to expect from you.
4. Learn from your mistakes. We all make mistakes. We couldn't be wonderfully creative if we didn't. Once you made you're mistake,the important thing to do is to find out the right way to do it next time.
5. Cultivate those in the know. You need to know who are the movers and the shakers are - and cultivate them. That means charm and politeness, tact and discretion, and gamesmanship.
6. Face the future. Whatever you are doing now, things are going to change. Things will change; thay have to. People you now work with will leave you're team.
7. Know when to let go. Sometimes,its really hard to let go, to when to stop, when to back off, to walk away whistling - pride intact and dignity in place.
8. Have principles and stick to them. When you think about it, you've got to have principles.If u don't, you end up despising youreself, or in dept, or in prison.
9. Keep learning, especially from opposition. The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.
10. Dont bad mouth your team. Your team makes mistakes, thats a given. Things will go wrong, that too is given. You'd be a fool not to expect this.
11. Aim for respect than being liked. You have to creat mistique, authority, friendliness, without the desperate need to be liked. They've got to be able to look up to you, respect you, have you as role model.
12. And go to the extra mile. This is the easiest rule of all. Going the extra mile should be the first thing on your mind when you wake up in the morning and last thing at night.
THE RULES OF WORK
walk your talk ~never stand still, be 100 percent committed, enjoy what you are doing, and , develop the right attitude.
know that your being judge at all times ~cultivate a smile, exude confidence and energy, be cool, speak well; and write well.
have a plan ~know what you want long term, know what you want short term, develop a game plan, set objectives, know you're role; and, look for opportunities.
if u cant say anything nice just shut up ~ dont gossip; stand up for others, be a good listener; and only speak sense.
act one step ahead ~think one step ahead,talk of 'we' rather than 'I;' and, prepare for the step after next.
cultivate diplomacy ~be concilatort; never lose your temper; never get personal;mknow how to handle other people's anger; stand your ground; and, put things in perspective.
handle the opposition ~identify the opposition; don't back stub; don't give to much way; keep your ear to the ground; and cultivatethe friendship and approval of your colleagues.
LOVE
Love God; love yourself;love your family; love your friends;
love your neighbors and your enemies.
Let me share with you one of the chapters in the holy Bible on love:--
"If I speak in the tongue of men and of angels, but have not loved,
Iam only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
If I have the gift of propecy and can phantom all mysteries and all knowledge,
and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, Iam nothing.
If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames,
but have not love, I gain nothing.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs.
Love does not delight on evilbut rejoices with truth.It always protects, always trust, always hiopes, always perseveres.
"Love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease;
where there are tongues, they will be stilled;
where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
For we know in part and we prophecy in part,
but when perfection comes, the imperfect dissappears.
When I was a child, I talkedlike a child, I reason like a child.
When i became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
Now w see but a poor reflectionas in a mirror; then we see face to face.
Now I know in part; Then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
"And now these three remain: Faith, hope and love.
But the greatest of these is LOVE."
(1 corinthians 1-13)
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I am a person who believe that love can be learn.
I want to love someone who love me more than I love him.
Maybe thats the reason why Im still searching for love.
Bacause I am not willing to give unselfish love.
I am hoping that someday I'll be ready to give unconditional love to someone who may or may not deserve it.
Monday, November 12, 2007
More about me..........
ans. siomai and quekquek
2. fave pasta?
ans. lasagna and baked macaroni
3. fave food pag summer?
ans. ice cream
4. fave food pag umuulan?
ans. crab soup and chicken soup
5. fave food pag nanonood ng sine?
ans. i dont actually like going to movie theater
6.fave shake?
ans. fourseasons
7. fave night-out drink?
ans. san mig light
8 .favorite softdrinks?
ans. pepsi
9.fave drink/food pag galit?
ans. 3 pitcher of lemonade
10.fave cuisine?
ans. i like japanese and italian
11. fave breakfast?
ans. coffee lang me pag breakfast
12. fave kind of chocolate?
ans. anything basta taste like wine and not too sweet
13. fave food na may sabaw?
ans. sinigang na milkfish
14. gusto mong handa sa birthday mo?
ans. chocolate cake lang wala nang iba
15. best place to have coffee?
ans. beside the sea shore or tabing ilog
16. saan sulit kumain pag gutom?
ans. where?
17. best palaman sa tinapay?
ans. deep fry chicken with tomato, lettuce & mayo
Saturday, November 10, 2007
one of my favorite poem
by: Roy Craft
I love you
Not only for what u are
But for what I am
When I am with u
I love you not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what you are making of me
I love you
For ignoring the possibilities
Of the fool in me
And for laying firm hold
Of the possibilities for the good
Why do I love you?
I love you
For closing your eyes
To the discords
And for adding the music in me
By the worshipful thinking
I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern but a temple;
And out of the words of my everyday
Not a reproach
But a song
I love you
Because you
More than any creed
To make me happy
You have done it
Without a word,
Without a touh
Without a sigh
You have done it
Just by being yourself
After all perhaps that what love means.